No matter how horrible a setting from which children are removed, they will often experience intense grief, at the loss of their family, what they’ve already known, and even into adoption they can grieve the loss of their hopes and dreams of a happily-ever-after reunion with their birth parents.
As a foster-adoptive parent, it’s important to know how to support children in foster care around releasing their false ideas, which fuel their grief, and empowering them with positive and effective ways of dealing with their losses.