Relationship Toolshop® International Training Institute, LLC/What's the Foundation of Your Parenting? (Course #2 of 10 in the Advanced Foster-Adoptive Parents Toolshop® Bundle) - 3 hour

What's the Foundation of Your Parenting?

Course #2 of 10 in the Advanced Foster-Adoptive Parents Toolshop® Bundle - 3 hours

  • $27

What's the Foundation of Your Parenting?

The way we were parenting is the primary factor in determining how we parent. But what if there was trauma or family dysfunction? How can parents break free of their subconscious conditioning to become the parents they want to be and not react like their parents?

The answer is not to do the opposite, as it might be just as imbalanced and also get negative long-term outcomes. In fact, some of the common quick fix parenting practices have hidden harmful long-term outcomes. So how can a parent get on a healthy path for their parenting journey? Research holds the answer.

Did you know that research has identified five parenting styles but most people only know about three or four? Sixty years of research has repeatedly shown that there is one style that gives the best chance of achieving the healthy long-term goals most parents want. Even most therapists and social workers don’t know about these 5.

That does not mean there's "one right way to parent." That style is like an eight-lane freeway millions of parents can follow to their common healthy goals while having a totally unique family journey.

In this course, you will learn how your subconscious mind receives your parenting programs. Then discover how to get on a healthy parenting path and building a healthy family while working together as a team with your parenting partners, including caseworkers and birth parents.

Learning Objectives

Complete this virtual workshop  and you will: 

  • Understand how the subconscious mind creates your parenting programs.

  • Identify your parenting goals 

  • Know how to identify the 5 parenting styles 

  • Understand the short- and long-term outcomes for each style 

  • Know how to build trust, and foster teamwork with parenting partners who have differing styles

This program as been

Approved for Continuing Education Hours

for Social Workers, Counselors, and Marriage & Family Therapists

This program has been approved for 3 Continuing Education hours for Social Work & Counselor CEU hours by the State of Ohio Counselor Social Worker and Marriage & Family Therapist Board (Approved Provider number: 50-32634). Course Approval #: 20-1343747. To receive CEUs, please follow the directions in the final lesson of the course.

Not in Ohio, an Ohio Nurse, or a Foster-Adoptive Parent? The certificate and hours you receive are usually approved or accepted by many other licensing boards. Please check with your own board or caseworker to verify if they accept them.

RTITI's Founder/CEU Jody Johnston Pawel, LSW, CFLE, CTSS

Jody, the Founder/CEO of RTITI, is a Licensed Social Worker, Certified Family Life Educator, and a Certified Trauma Support Specialist. She is the author of an award-winning parenting book and evidence-based curriculum called The Parent's Toolshop® and has created over 100 multimedia parenting resources. Jody has trained and certified over 100 Toolshop® Instructors worldwide and over a dozen Relationship Toolshop® Experts, with whom she co-authors new Toolshop® training programs and resources that support people in using her unique “Universal Blueprint® for Relationship Success” to improve other relationships in their lives. Jody is a top-rated speaker who has trained over 50,000 parents and family-service professionals worldwide. She also has served as a parenting expert to the media for over 30 years, including being the Co-Producer and Parenting Expert for the Emmy-nominated “Ident-a-Kid” television series. 

Competencies Covered

This course is a video of a live in-person workshop approved by the Ohio Child Welfare Training Program  (OCWTP) for 3 hours. It provides training in the following OCTWP competencies:
  • 925-02-005: Knows partners/spouses may have different behavior management philosophies and practices and can negotiate those differences so they child experiences consistency.
  • 925-02-006: Knows common characteristics of four main parenting styles – authoritative, authoritarian, indulgent, and uninvolved; Understands why authoritative parenting has the best outcomes for children’s behavior.
  • 925-02-007: Knows ways to teach children to control their behavior; Knows how this increases their self-esteem.
  • 925-02-009: Knows how to choose the best way to manage behavior for the situation and the child’s development.

Contents

Course Handouts

01-ConsciousParenting-Styles-FP-PPT-3notes-10pgs-secure.pdf
02-Foundation-Styles_FP-HAND-narrative-2pgs-secure.pdf
03-Handout: 7C's of Resilience, with source citation (3 pg. pdf) for Part 2d
04-Handout: Parenting Styles Research summary 2018 (2 pg pdf) for Part 3d

Part A: Conscious Mindset Toolbox

Cross reference with Chapter 1 of The Parent's Toolshop®

Part 1: Conscious Parenting Mindset
Part 2a: Conscious Parenting (video by Bruce Lipton) (3 min)
Part 2b: Unconscious Parenting Mindset
Part 3a: Subconscious Programming Occurs
Part 3b: unpack video
What is Neuroplasticity?
Part 4: Reactive & Conscious Mindsets
Quiz on Chapter 1: Conscious Mindset Toolbox

Part B: Parenting Styles Toolset

Cross reference with Chapter 2 of The Parent's Toolshop®

Part 1: Parenting Goals
Part 2a. Watch video "InBrief: What is Resilience?" (2 min)
Part 2b. Discuss Resilience
Part 3a. Parenting Styles
Part 3b. Parenting Style Show
Part 3c. Parenting Styles Video Processing / Application
Part 4. Parenting Teamwork - Getting on the Same Page
Bonus: Declaration of Imperfection image/poster to print (jpg)
Quiz on Chapter 2: Parenting Styles Toolset

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1. Click through each section on the left course menu, so your status will show up as "Completed." 
2. Complete the quiz (if there is one) or other requirements listed at this step.
3. Follow the directions at this step to get your certificate:
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