Relationship Toolshop® International Training Institute, LLC/Get Cooperation the First Time You Ask (Course #4 of 10 in the Advanced Foster-Adoptive Parents Toolshop® Advanced Bundle) - 3 hour

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Get Cooperation the First Time You Ask (Course #4 of 10 in the Advanced Foster-Adoptive Parents Toolshop® Advanced Bundle) - 3 hour

Do you ever shake your head, wondering why children often do what you just told them not to do? This workshop reveals why and how to prevent this baffling behavior by using three key tools for getting children to cooperate the first time you ask ---without power struggles, threats, bribes, incentives, or stickers --- while fostering internal motivation. You’ll also discover which tots might go through a “no” phase and which teens might rebel – and how to beat the odds. Using the tools in this workshop often requires only small subtle changes in your language but can often result in both quick changes and long-term results!

Learning Objectives

Complete this Course

to know how to:

  • Engage cooperation with children and birth parents

  • Prevent and stop Power Struggles!

  • Foster Internal Motivation in Children Without Bribes, Incentives, Stickers Or Rewards.

  • Understand Why Children Do What You Just Told Them Not To Do — and How to Prevent This

  • Prevent temper tantrums.

This program as been

Approved for Continuing Education Hours

for Social Workers, Counselors, and Marriage & Family Therapists

This program has been approved for 3 Continuing Education hours for Social Work & Counselor CEU hours by the State of Ohio Counselor Social Worker and Marriage & Family Therapist Board (Approved Provider number: 50-32634). Course Approval #: 20-1345960. To receive CEUs, please follow the directions in the final lesson of the course.

Not in Ohio, an Ohio Nurse, or a Foster-Adoptive Parent? The certificate and hours you receive are usually approved or accepted by many other licensing boards. Please check with your own board or caseworker to verify if they accept them.

RTITI's Founder/CEU Jody Johnston Pawel, LSW, CFLE, CTSS

Jody, the Founder/CEO of RTITI, is a Licensed Social Worker, Certified Family Life Educator, and a Certified Trauma Support Specialist. She is the author of an award-winning parenting book and evidence-based curriculum called The Parent's Toolshop® and has created over 100 multimedia parenting resources. Jody has trained and certified over 100 Toolshop® Instructors worldwide and over a dozen Relationship Toolshop® Experts, with whom she co-authors new Toolshop® training programs and resources that support people in using her unique “Universal Blueprint® for Relationship Success” to improve other relationships in their lives. Jody is a top-rated speaker who has trained over 50,000 parents and family-service professionals worldwide. She also has served as a parenting expert to the media for over 30 years, including being the Co-Producer and Parenting Expert for the Emmy-nominated “Ident-a-Kid” television series. 

Competencies Covered

This course is a video of a live in-person workshop approved by the Ohio Child Welfare Training Program  (OCWTP) for 3 hours. It provides training in the following OCTWP competencies:
  • 925-03-004: Understands various methods of behavior modification; Knows how to use them in caregiving homes with children who have behavior problems 
  • 923-03-002: Understands social, emotional, and behavioral problems children at various developmental stages caused by abuse, neglect, and placement stress. Knows how to respond to these problems 
  • 925-03-001: Knows how to discipline children in ways that communicate respect 
  • 925-03-002: Knows appropriate methods of setting limits and redirecting children and adolescents when they misbehave that do not include physical/corporal punishment 
  • 925-03-004: Understands various methods of behavior modification; Knows how to use them in caregiving homes with children who have behavior problems 

Contents

Course Handouts

COOPERATION-HANDOUT 1 - Slides
Cooperation-HANDOUT 2 - Competition Vs Cooperation-Research(2pgs)

WATCH the VIDEOS of Module.Chapter 5: Cooperation Toolset

1. Introductions and opening video
(Voted) Best Foreign Commercial Ever
2. Opening activity. Tips, Tricks and Tactics Parents Might use to Get Kids to Do What They Want Them to Do
3. What NOT to do: Using +/- External Motivators (Carrot-and-Stick) | How to Modify/Adapt Ineffective and Counterproductive Behavior Modification Techniques
4. What TO do: a. Best 5-star Tool for Preventing and Stopping Power Struggles
5. What TO do: b. Best 5-star Tool for Getting Kids to Do What you Want Them TO Do
6. What TO do: c. Best 5-star Tool for Avoiding the "NO" Phase, "Why's" and Whining

Chapter 6: Independence Toolset (unedited)

We will update these videos once they are edited. Thanks for your patience.
7. Independence Toolset & Bonus Content

Getting a certificate of course completion is as easy as 1-2-3!

Step 1. Click through each section, so it's "checked off" in your left course menu
Step 2. Complete the Quiz on Chapter 5: The Cooperation Toolset
Step 3: Download your Certificate from your Account Dashboard.

RTITI's Founder/CEU Jody Johnston Pawel, LSW, CFLE, CTSS

Jody, the Founder/CEO of RTITI, is a Licensed Social Worker, Certified Family Life Educator, and a Certified Trauma Support Specialist. She is the author of an award-winning parenting book and evidence-based curriculum called The Parent's Toolshop® and has created over 100 multimedia parenting resources. Jody has trained and certified over 100 Toolshop® Instructors worldwide and over a dozen Relationship Toolshop® Experts, with whom she co-authors new Toolshop® training programs and resources that support people in using her unique “Universal Blueprint® for Relationship Success” to improve other relationships in their lives. Jody is a top-rated speaker who has trained over 50,000 parents and family-service professionals worldwide. She also has served as a parenting expert to the media for over 30 years, including being the Co-Producer and Parenting Expert for the Emmy-nominated “Ident-a-Kid” television series.