If you want to know HOW to do what Jody suggested in her session, here are some free resources on the Parents Toolshop® blog. Ideally, you'll want to attend her 18-hour Advanced training series called "Foster-Adoptive T.I.P.S.: Trauma-Informed Parenting," which is usually priced at <$5/training hour, but until April 1st you can use the coupon code SUMMIT-FAPTIPS to get a 1/2 off discount or for only $2.20/training hour.