Done4u Parenting Solutions!

These Parents Toolshop® resources apply the proven-effective Universal Blueprint® for Parenting Success Formula to the most common challenges parents face.

Each session was recorded LIVE with Jody Johnston Pawel, LSW, CFLE, author of The Parent’s Toolshop®, guest experts, and a group of committed, capable parents and family professionals from around the world.

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Done4U Parenting Solutions

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"I Can’t Believe I Just Said/Did That!" Breaking the Cycle: How Our Upbringing Shapes Stress, Anger, and Parenting Reactions

Today, parents face more stress than ever but might not have learned healthy coping skills from their own parents. Doing the opposite can also be unhealthy. Break the cycle for the next generation by learning how childhood created subconscious patterns and trigger buttons and get tools to reduce stress, deprogram triggers, stay calm and communicate effectively.

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Dealing with Difficult People (Done4U Solutions Audio Album)

You can choose your friends, but you can’t choose your family or co-workers. Most families and office teams are dysfunctional somehow & almost everyone knows someone they dread seeing. So, why not learn some skills for preventing them from getting under your skin and responding helpfully, when needed. Then you can be around them without draining your energy and leaving angry and hurt. This multi-media resourc...

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Done4U Solutions: A/V resource package - Parents Guide To Anti-Bullying

Bullying seems to be a problem for children and parents almost everywhere. Whether your child is the target, the bully or the bystander, you need to know what to say and do to be a part of the solution. Get this audio/video presentation and bonus report to discover what to do if your child is the bully, target, bystander, or is cyberbullied.

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Done4U Solutions: Webinars - Holiday Issues

Here's a collection of our holiday-themed webinar and resources all in one place for you to download for free. Be sure to check out the many informative articles listed in the resource docs. Topics include: Taming the Holiday Gimmees, Using the Santa Threat, Shopping with Children, Embarrassing Gift Receiving Faux Pas, and more!

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Getting Back Talk? Let's Talk (Parents Tool Talk® DONE4U Solutions Webinar)

Getting Back Talk? Let’s Talk! Want to know how to prevent children from using back talk, rudeness, and “smart-alecky” remarks, and how you can respond assertively, effectively and without defensiveness. We’ll also discuss why children today often act and talk these ways, how to recognize whether “sass” is intentional or not, how to respond, and some tips for teaching anger management skills to children.

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Getting Back Talk? Let's Talk: Why Kids Talk Back and What to Do About it. (DONE4U Solutions Audio)

You see, back-talk is learned behavior, so the question is, where do children learn to talk like this? Do they know how to say what they want in an assertive, respectful way? And if they did, would they be heard?  While parents aren’t the only place children learn back talk, they are the biggest influence in modeling communication skills and stopping back talk, even if they didn’t start it. So here’s a resource p...

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Getting into the Back-To-School Swing (Done4U Solutions Audio Album)

Would you like your children's first day of school this year to be positive like this? Would you like them to come home with happy smiles, excited about school and learning? The new school year will arrive before you now it! So start preparing for it now!   Get this multi-media resource package and hear a value-packed discussion between Jody Johnston Pawel, LSW, CFLE and author of The Parents Toolshop®, other fam...

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Halting Bedtime Hassles (Done4U Solutions Audio Album)

If bedtime battles are wearing you down and draining your patience, you’re not alone! Getting children to bed, happily and cooperatively, is one of the most common challenges parents face. Do your children dig in their heels and refuse to go to bed (or stay there)? Claim that monsters are hiding in their closets? Take the prize for lame excuses? Cling? Feel lonely and insecure? Get revved up but can't wind down?...

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Halting Bedtime Hassles (Parents Tool Talk® Webinar Series)

Is Bedtime a Nightmare at YOUR House? When you announce that it’s bedtime, does pandemonium break out?  Getting children to bed on time, asleep, and staying there is one of the most common challenges parents face.  In this webinar, you get creative ideas and practical solutions so bedtime is a fun, pleasant experience for everyone. Get practical solutions to the most common bedtime hassles parents experience.  W...

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Is the Family Bed for You? Done4U Solutions Webinar Series

How many parents have you heard say they get no sleep the first few years after having a baby? It’s almost a given! The parents you won’t hear saying that are those that have a family bed. But family beds do have potential dangers, so is this a practice you should even consider? If you do choose to have a family bed, how can you do it safely and eventually get children sleeping on their own?

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Morning Delays (Done4U Solutions Audio Album)

Does getting your children ready and out the door in the morning feel like running through molasses? Do you have to try waking your children multiple times before they finally get out of bed? Do they delay and drag along while getting dressed and ready? Are they often running so late they have to skip breakfast or are late for the bus? And then do they realize they’ve forgotten their lunch or homework and you hav...

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Parenting Through Grief: Done4U Solutions Webinar Series

Have you lost a loved one and are now caring for the children who were left behind? Are you struggling to parent children who are grieving, while still overwhelmed with your own grief? If so, experience this presentation full of encouragement, support and practical advice from a nationally-recognized parenting expert. This multimedia resource package includes:Audio and Video recordings of the 1-hour course. A 25-...

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Picky Eaters & Food Issues (Done4U Solutions Audio Album)

Which of these children sounds most like yours? "I don't like broccoli! No, I don't want to try it! I just want hot dogs." Or "Mmmm! I love baby trees! I They're yummy, yummy in my tummy! Can I have more?" If you have found your way to this page, then the first child probably sounds most like yours. Picky eaters and other food issues crop up for most parents at some time or another, especially when children are y...

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Social Media & Youth Mental Health: Understanding the Connection and the “5 C’s for Media Use”

This webinar explains recent research on how smartphones affect youth mental and emotional well-being, and how proactive caregivers can support healthy habits by following the AAP's "5 C's." Participants will share their insights, ideas, and practical tools, in addition to those from Parents Toolshop®, to help children maintain balance in this high-stress world with lots of digital distractions and addictions.

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Solving Sibling Strife (Done4U Solutions Audio Album)

Every parent hopes their children will be best buds with their siblings. Although sibling conflicts are inevitable, sibling rivalry is not. There are simply strategies you can use on a daily basis to prevent sibling conflicts, and a three-step process you can use when sibling strife arises to empower children how to resolve their own conflicts respectfully and independently.

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Taming Temper Tantrums (Done4U Solutions Audio Album)

Did you know there are only 4 types of tantrums? Discover why these 4 types of tantrums start and how to respond to each type, without reacting. We also discuss destructive tantrums, teen/adult tantrums, aggressive toddlers, and timeouts, plus several bonuses.

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Taming Temper Tantrums (webinar & video exercise)

Did you know there are only 4 types of tantrums? Discover why these 4 types of tantrums start and how to respond to each type, without reacting. We also discuss destructive tantrums, teen/adult tantrums, aggressive toddlers, and timeouts, plus several bonuses.

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Teaching Children Tidiness (Done4U Solutions Audio Album)

Though play is a greater priority for children than cleaning, they can learn to be tidy. In this teleseminar, you'll get practical tips for teaching children how to clean up after themselves, including their rooms; how to prevent or respond to cleaning distractions and delays; and how to help your children let go of old toys. We’ll also discuss chores, including pay for, and consequences for not, doing them.

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Teaching Children about Money (Done4U Solutions Audio Album)

If you would like to instill responsibility and values in your children about money management, including saving, budgeting and using allowances, listen to an hour-long interview by Jody Johnston Pawel, LSW, CFLE, CTSS with with Alexis Neely of the Family Wealth Institute. It’s FREE!

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The Controversy about Corporal Punishment (Done4U Solutions Album)

Is corporal punishment an effective discipline tool? This teleseminar features Dr. Kerby Alvy and a discusion among parents and parenting professionals on topics that include: controversial legislation, what research says about the effectiveness of corporal punishment, and what discipline tools you want to have at your disposal.

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Tools for Teaching Tidiness (Parents Tool Talk®) webinar

It is possible to teach tidiness and organization to your children — even young children. Attend this webinar to get practical tips for how to: Teach children to clean up after themselves, make beds, clean rooms, organize or let go of old toys, without them delaying or quitting or you having to bribe, threaten, or pay an allowance (but if you do, learn this 3-part plan).

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Transforming Picky Eaters to Healthy Foodies: Done4U Solutions to A Baker’s Dozen Eating Issues

Attend this webinar to learn how to hold children accountable in ways that build your relationship and teach them better behavior. You can replace ineffective tactics like threats, spanking, timeouts, and restrictions with these 5 tools which get far better results without resentment, rebellion, or sneakiness.

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Your Worst Parenting Nightmares --- SOLVED!! with the Done4U Solutions Teleseminar Album

The Parents Toolshop® Teleseminar Series shows you how to prevent or respond helpfully to The Top Ten Most Common Challenges Parents Face. These are not cookie-cutter suggestions; you learn how to custom-design the most effective response to YOUR child, based on WHY YOUR child is behaving this way. This is because the suggestions apply the proven-effective Universal Blueprint® for Parenting Success Formula.